I'm sure everyone is at the edge by now, not being directly involved in the search but extremely engaged mentally becomes frustrating. I never interacted with him, but descriptions I read of him could very well described any of my 2 sons. I've been thinking of him and his family non stop since the Sunday noon when I read the first post. We all worry differently, not being able to be there trying to look until you can't see anymore, or maybe just fueling the vessels that will be used in the search, has the potential to make you feel useless ... Even more if religion is not your thing.. I envy people that can get busy praying. I just keep looking at wind/currents charts and get lost in calculations for where should they search.