So there's the kid, full of energy zipping around on a skateboard doing jumps
over gutters riding railings,tut tut, jumping up onto walls having a kid of a time
Then an adult comes along and well, can't just tell the kid that it can't be done
then next best thing the adult can find instead, is to teach the kid about gravity
then the kid thinks well he's an adult been around, there must be wisdom there
so to make the adult happy, kid plonks on the couch and becomes a vegetable.
This before the kid has learnt how to dive, learnt about gear, and learnt to fix it
Off to the solo forum now, to impart information about my love of buddy diving.
Sorry, I don't understand the relevance of your post in this thread.