OK. My lesson learned? Stick to your f'ing group. There is no "team" in "buddy team" if one of the divers wanders off.
There were four divers in the water on Monday. One chose to move away from the group at various times, eventually seperating herself from the group of two she was with and swam past the third diver
I dont want to seem ghoulish and I also dont think the other divers involved should bear the burden in passing on info so I was hoping to give some info (example she wasnt found floating as reported by the media) because I also dont think there needs to be a veil of silence as well. Its a balance act, Im trying not to hurt the family or other divers but totally understand SB friends want to know what happened.
Stick to your group if that is the plan. What if the plan is to split up now and then? Or just dive solo like I often do. If they were indeed diving as buddy teams then no, you should not deviate from that plan. And also understand that if you do decide to go off that whatever happens, happens.