wolf eel:
Foaming at the mouth not likely.
You should take the advanced course before you take the rescue course.
First YOU said you are a Dive Buddy PRO I am sorry for reading into what you said. But in diving you have all kinds of dudes that do not have a clue. Even instructors and DM's. As for the other comments they did not read what your cert level is. Because if they had they would realize that you have only dove in one place. You responded to be a dive buddy PRO that would give a novice the idea if they are in trouble you would be there to assit. Because you are a dive buddy PRO. Again I was only truly worried about the other diver. Yes I think you would become a great person to take on the Advance course then after many dives and problems that come along then maybe you should take the rescue course. Sorry for taking the PRO dive buddy out of contents but your statment about the slap part is what really drew my attention. Where do you get off saying that maybe they where just training. Because what YOU said was what I thought was what happened. That being said I have never shot my mouth off about you but I did about the instructor. As the DM that read this he?she failed to look at what you have for expeirence.
Cheers
foaming at the mouth.
The Pro part was a joke. Like I said before, all the students are told by the instructors that I am not a source of information and I repeat that for any students that didn't understand it the first time around. Also, it doesn't really change anything but I have been more than one place. True it has all been in quarries, but I was in a quarry.
I didn't say they were just training. I just said I saw a guy in trouble with a buddy that was oblivious to that fact. I said the buddy needed slapped because I feel it is true. I'm not insinuating anything by this but I take my buddy responsibilities very seriously and would hope someone would slap me if I let my dive buddy get into this,or any situation and didn't know it. I feel that my, and my buddies, responsibilities start before we get into the water and are not necessarily over even after we are out of the water. Before every dive we check each others gear. In the water on the surface, we are within about 5 to 10 feet of each other. On descent, we face each other and do a quick bubble check. During the dive we stay within about 3 feet of each other and always know where the other is. I will probably ask and be asked if everything is ok several times during the dive. On ascent we face each other again. Once we are out of the water we talk about the dive and how we feel physically. Once we go our separate ways home we are on our own. Those are MY rules that I dive by and if the other guy doesn't like them he can find a different buddy. I intend to keep those rules for the rest of the time I am diving. Are they high standards? Sure. Are they too high? Anyone that thinks so is free to not dive with me. Will that limit my options? I'm sure it will but I don't care. That is where I get off saying that the buddy should be slapped.
Should the instructor be slapped as well? Probably. Maybe something even more serious. That was part of the reason I made the post to begin with. I didn't feel that enough was done. If the more qualified person failed to react or under-reacted, as seems to be the case, should I have done something else? I have no control over anyone but me and I'm the person that has to live with what I do or fail to do regardless of a piece of plastic saying I've demonstrated a set of skills. Just as there is no "Pro buddy" card I'm sure there is no "I'm sorry but I haven't had the proper training to assist you. I'll be back after I get my rescue cert. or someone that cares" card.<That was a joke as well> I do intend to take the rescue course but this happened now. Popular opinion seems to be that someone should have stayed with the guy and alerted the buddy. Even if someone else didn't do that, I am someone as well and now regret not having done it myself.
If I seemed to get defensive it was because I was suddenly defending being where I was and what I was doing there instead of the situation. The other instructor, not the one from this situation, wouldn't even let me pass out weight belts until he took me on a skills dive. He would stop me cold if he thought for a minute that my participation was in any way a violation of agency standards or placed myself or a student in potential danger. I know because he has done it.
And I didn't think you were foaming... Maybe a little excess drooling... but not foaming
Joe