1. Those rates for O2 cleaning a tank are a little high. Well, a lot high in the case of the steel tank.
2. Like MechDiver said, but I'll ellaborate:
A tank is either cleaned for oxygen service or it's not. If your local shop does partial pressure blending in your tank to produce nitrox then the tank and valve need to be oxygen service. If they use a membrane system, PSA, etc. then the tank and valve do not need to be oxygen service *see below.
If a tank is oxygen service and you want it to remain that way then you should only put oxygen compatible air (or oxygen compatible nitrox) in it. Not all nitrox is oxygen compatible.
If the tank is not oxygen service then you can either put grade E (normal SCUBA) air in it or premix nitrox in it.
I use the slang terms "dirty air" or "dirty nitrox" to refer to grade E (normal SCUBA) air or nitrox that has not been run through a hyperfilter. The terms "oxygen compatible air", "clean air", or "clean nitrox" are how I refer to gas that has been run through a hyperfilter. These are my terms and are probably not recognized industry wide. To be clear, there is absolutely nothing wrong with breathing/diving "dirty nitrox" - I do it all the time. I just don't put it into my oxygen service tanks.
* You should talk to your local dive shop to determine how they do your fills, and to see if they have any special policies above and beyond the basic scuba industry rules. It's their call if they are comfortable filling your tank or not.
EDIT: In the paragraph about dirty gas that has not been run through a hyperfilter I do not mean to suggest that it is common practice to pump nitrox through a hyperfilter. I am referring instead to nitrox which is made with normal un-hyper-filtered air through a system such as a continuous flow mixing station. Some shops may hyperfilter nitrox but I have not personally seen this.