I somewhat regularly end up carrying a stage bottle (pony bottle) in recreational gear. Usually its an aluminum 40.
I like to set it up as a traditional stage bottle. It has its own reg and pressure gauge (on a 6" HP hose). I then put two clips on the bottle and clip it to the left clavicle D ring and left hip D ring. This is the same way the DIR suggest if you want pictures...
I then bungee my "octo" from my main tank and use a long hose for my primary second stage.
Benefits of this setup include:
1. It's the standard way to do things these days (matches my tech setup)
2. I have two seconds on my main tank so that config doesn't change if I do/don't carry the stage.
3. The stage is a completely self contained unit, and the gear on my back is complete as well. If I need to I can hand off the stage to another diver and still have everything I need (I've done this).
4. The stage bottle can be left turned off until ready to be used. This prevents the infamous empty pony bottle dilema.
I suggest using some bungee/innertube/surgical tubing to hold the stage reg to the stage bottle. When you're ready to deploy it grab the second, pull it out, place it around the back of your head, and into your mouth. This will result in the reg being right side up