I agree, and I drank the koolaid about as hard as a newbie can. Not sure if I'll ever go the tech route but I really do want to eventually reach the fundies tech pass proficiency. I very much have a love-hate affair with GUE. I think their conservative approach and courses are excellent, and all their instructors I've met are exemplary divers but they sure don't make it easy. The community here is tiny and it looks like the minimum level to be able to dive with them on any regular basis is T1 + DPV (and by that I mean the course and an XK1 'cause nothing else will do, haha).
Out of necessity, I've been doing all my diving lately with non-GUE folks and came to the realization that (you'll laugh) you don't have to be a GUE diver to have impressive buoyancy and comfort in the water. I'm still at the stage where I learn something new every dive, so at least that keeps me going.
Very funny Diveday. You know I've got quite a lot of GUE history, know really a lot of GUE people and count some instructors as close friends. Been involved in some kick ass projects and even organised one (I believe the sole thing in my live that I'm really really proud of).
That said I totally relate with what you say. I had a very love-hate relationship with GUE too. Back in the day of GIIII and the almost nazi like Dutch DIR (frogkick.nl) dudes. It delayed me getting into GUE for at least 3 years, and in the end the trigger was a near death experience in the North Sea.
I have certificates from a lot of agencies and teach for 2 (not GUE). I literally dive with everybody, and while the diving level let's say 15 years ago was much more black and white, and what GUE did counted a bit like "black magic" it's much more accessible now, you find a lot on internet and youtube... meaning you see loads of divers who've never taken any GUE/UTD/Innerexplorers/whatnot course but still are very good in the water... Because they've researched themselves, because they read boards like this, or because they had instructors that drank some of the koolaid (from close by or far away). I totally love this, the fact that simple (but ooh so hard) basics in diving are becoming a little bit more the norm (at least in my local diving community).
So in general in my comfort level I'll dive with anybody, including cave dives and tech dives. We'll need to do some talking before the dive, and maybe some warm up dives. BUT if I'm getting close to my diving experience limits, I'm diving GUE, and GUE buddies I know, because standardisation and tough courses, and divers who you know do the dives, mean something in the end.
PS: I don't know your community, but I'm following
wetb4igetinthewater. If they are a bit gun ho, probably you are talking to the noobs, not so experienced GUE divers who still think they have to proof something. Most of the experienced GUE divers I know, are really super mellow and just love diving with anybody.