The only agency that teaches to "take" anything is BSAC and it is secondary take. Important to note, they don't allow long hose to be primary.
All other agencies are OK with primary donate, though largely because the use of air mcdoodles necessitates it vs. actually teaching a long hose configuration, but the only agency to my knowledge the strictly prohibits the donation of the primary is BSAC and they are also the only agency that teaches the OOA diver to "take" anything.
Double 100's are only about 25lbs heavier than your current setup...
When I got PADI certified in 1983, the octopus was for your buddy. There was no discussion about giving your primary. But I do understand the new way makes sense since an OOA diver is probably going for the first regulator they see. “Only” 25lbs is relative young man. .