Nemrod, what were the cirsumstances when the diver grabbed your reg? How deep? Was the other diver really out of air or just panicked? Why were they out of air? Did their regulator break?
Many of us used to dive (some still do) without a SPG or even a J-Valve and did this on a regualar basis without incident. I guess I'm just trying to imagine a situation where the extra gear would be needed for an open water dive without any equipment failure. Less than 80 feet, I reckon, which is where I've spend most of my time.
Mr. Bond, it was many years ago, about 1974, before--before--there were octopus safe seconds in normal use. I was an AI, one of three and we were doing a check out dive for a large class of students. I had I think six with me, I think there were 20 total and the third dive was in 60 feet, hey, I worked for the shop, I was just a college kid!
One of the other AIs group apparently got split up while he was dealing with another issue, a runaway student. They had gone in about 20 minutes before my group, my group was doing well and we were cruising along when I came upon a group of three students, split away and lost from the other AI. I noticed one of them, a lady, seemed to be signaling to the other two who were not paying her any attention. I realized she was out of air, flat, bone dry!!!!! I went into Nemrod Hyper Speed just as she was about to bolt for the surface, she indeed grabbed my regulator from my mouth and was not much in a mood to share it back with me. We began a controlled ascent straight away buddy breathing as soon as I got my students and the other two together and aware that we were ALL going up and some control over the lady. We all surfaced together, all OK, all holding hands except for me and the lady who I had her facing me, mask to mask.
I ran flat out of air once myself, yeah, yeah, don't jump on me, it was circa 1984 and my wife and I had been partnered with a couple of other divers on a drift out of Ft. Lauderdale, I was given the float to tow. There was an awful lot of current that day and we were in about 90 feet of water. One of the guys in my group kept dragging behind and swimming off thus forcing me to hold into the current, it was during a time I was uber fit and I simply vacuumed the air down, one minute I had 2,000 and the next I had none, being highly fit not only allows you to be efficient in air consumption but it also allows your body to consume lot's of O2 if needed for extreme exertion and I guess my fitness level just did not register that I was working very hard. It was about then that I learned to not volunteer for towing duty nor to reveal any "credentials" that I might have, unless I am being paid. Anyways, my wife was a good twenty yards away, I signaled OOA, she and I met, we buddy breathed as we headed up. I did not yank my wife's regulator from her mouth, we calmly handled the situation and at about 50 feet I let her go and I did a leisurely free ascent exhaling all the way. After getting fussed at by the captain, we went and bought a set of safe seconds
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Last summer, in the Keys, on the Spiegal, I shared air with a guy, he was not OOA but he was low, he was not my buddy, I had plenty so I let him milk my 40 inch octopus, I stayed on my primary, my Royal Aqua Master double hose. He did not panic but he was concerned and it was the concern in his eyes that prompted me to check his spg and see 600 psi and he was a long way back on the wreck from the buoy line, current again.
Anyways, that is just a few, of many similar, I just don't find that people immediately go berserk and grab your regulator from your mouth especially if you have deployed your octopus and have it gurgling bubbles as you assist them getting it in their mouth. My opinion, people are less likely to panic and do weird things if you keep them close and make good eye and body contact. I am not saying they don't either sometimes panic and grab, be prepared for anything, especially if you have new divers and you are a DM/AI/I etc. I do believe that if you make good eye contact, it is reassuring to them and especially if they know you are one of their instructors and they trust you to take over and make it all warm and fuzzy and that is why the dive professional is there, to make it OK.
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