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If you had to choose between a balanced second stage or adjustable second which would you choose?
Complicated answer:
There are 2 basic ways to make a second:
One is called "barrel poppet", where the air is delivered through a barrel. It gives the smoothest delivery. It can be made balanced/unbalanced/adjustable/non-adjustable, and all the variations are good. The Scubapro G/S/C series work that way.
The other one is call "classic downstream", and it's not much more that a valve not unlike the one on your tires with a rod connecting it to the diaphragm. The air delivery is not as smooth as above. It can be made adjustable/non-adjustable, but not balanced.
choosing a reg based on ease of service is a good idea, but choosing one based on the so called "free parts for live" is not.
If you are doing only 30-40 dives a year on vacation, I would skip buying a reg entirely and just use rental.