Maybe the upside down regulator would be a good clue that the regulator is attached to the pony? I'm getting the feeling you haven't actually used the configuration you are discussing?
Not all regulators are "upside down" if they come from the other side.
For what it is worth I used to dive with a pony upside down attached to the tank, hose coming up under the left arm, reg on a bridle around the neck.
- Upside down pony means you can easily reach down to pressurize it then turn it off, and then back on if needed.
- Bridle around neck means you can easily find it and donate your primary to an OOA diver and ascend (give the stressed diver the bigger air source, after all you have said you can happily ascend on your pony)
- use a reg on the pony that will work coming from the left
- if reg comes from left it is pony, if it comes from right it is main
- I always left the alternate reg on the primary first stage, why bother messing with taking it on and off if not diving with the pony
Now doing deeper dives and deco and rebreather so slinging all sorts of other tanks, but back in time a pony attached to the tank served its purpose well.
In short any extra air is a bonus, but with only recreational training you are not really equipped to understand all the pros/cons/scenarios. So no you are not missing anything extra gas is a good thing, but your primary response should still be the one you are trained for which is share air with your buddy and ascend, use the pony for practice and if it all goes really really south.
Maybe consider doing a Solo Course? That would be a good introduction to managing an additional gas supply
Just my 2c worth.