Wow I'm impressed. A few questions then.
How do you read your gauges to fulfill deco obligations without a mask?
Under what diving circumstances/environments do you feel carrying a spare mask is essential or outweighs the (very negligible) inconvenience of carrying it?
Why is carrying a spare mask a lower priority than all the other forms of gear redundancies?
With a seeing buddy, it is pretty easy. The buddy keeps track of deco obligations and lets you know what to do. You know your depth and can maintain it because you shot a bag to the surface, and you have knots in the line every 10 feet. Keep a knot between your fingers and you know where you are.
If you are both blind, hopefully you can remember your deco plan (not as hard as it seems) and you go from knot to knot counting off the time in your head. This is a really, really remote possibility, and I wonder if it has ever happened in real life.
If you have a more complicated deco plan and are worried that both of you may experience what I have never seen in my life (a lost mask), then at least one of you needs to have a spare.
I carried a spare mask the last couple of days because I was doing some more complex cave dives, and not having a mask would hamper my exit. I do not always carry a spare mask in a cave, though. I think it through ahead of time.
If I am in the open water, where the exit is up and uncomplicated, I figure I can always handle that without a mask, and I usually don't carry a spare.
About priorities, let's say that I am diving a wreck in current at 150-200 feet, and I want to shoot a bag to do my ascent so that the boat can follow as I ascend. Assuming I am with a buddy, we make sure we have redundant bags and lines in case we screw up shooting the bag and lose it. That is more important than each of us carrying a spare mask. A spare bag of a different color may be used to signal an emergency as well. The danger of being alone at sea without the boat able to find me is more likely and more serious than the inconvenience of having to ascend with blurred vision.
The other factor in mask choices, as others have pointed out, is the extreme unlikeness that you will need it. When I asked my cave instructor about it, he said carrying one was up to me, but he had been diving in caves for 35 years and had never met anyone who had lost a mask, so he didn't carry one. In contrast, he carried 5 lights. You can see where he placed his priority.
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BTW, if you found that level of training impressive, you should know that what I described was pretty early in the training. One time my training partner and I were put in a situation in which we did the last two deco stops with me blind and us having only one working tank/regulator between us, meaning we had to buddy breathe.
Situations like that are so extremely unlikely that it could be argued that there is no point in preparing for them. The real point of such preparation, though, is not so much the specific situation but in the understanding you develop that no matter how the caca finds its way on the fan, you should have the skills and the presence of mind to work out a solution.