What other first stage screws right into a standard scuba tank and is environmentally sealed?
Honestly, I don't recall ever having seen one. The tank-integrated first stage market is very small, and it is quite likely there is not sufficient demand for the product. Divers requiring environmentally-sealed first stage regulators are more likely to want their pony/stage regulators *not* tank-integrated, as that would seriously limit their usefulness. Being able to move the pony/stage reg(s) between different cylinders is unquestionably useful.
As I see it (which is not to discount your opinion), wanting a tank-integrated pony reg for reliability purposes may not be *quite* as valid a reason as you have considered it. The probability of a situation arising in which you have to go to the pony followed by an O-ring failure *during* the ascent is minuscule. (You could also go DIN on the pony if you don't trust yoke O-rings.) If you would happen to have an O-ring failure at any other time, it would not be a safety issue (although it would, obviously, signal the end of the dive). The question of protection and maintenance of a tank-integrated regulator is also a concept worthy of consideration.
Any ideas on how to sling a 13 Cu Ft pony from the 2 lower D rings of my BC?
*If* the pony is long enough, it should be very simple. First, take a length of line more than twice the height of the pony. Drape it around the neck such that the ends are of equal length. At or just above the break of the shoulder (i.e. where the cylindrical sidewall meets the curve up to the neck), tie a simple overhand knot through the eye of a trigger snap or bolt snap (i.e. a clip with a swivel eye). Lay the line flat along the sidewall, and just below the base of the cylinder, tie another clip in. (Use an appropriate knot; then trim and dress the ends.)
Now, take two lengths of narrow bicycle inner tube and cut them to just slightly longer than the circumference of the cylinder. Procure two stainless steel "hose clamps" of sufficient size to fit around the cylinder. Lay one length of inner tube around the cylinder just below the break (you can use a small piece of tape to close the loop). drape the line with the bolt snaps over the inner tube ring along whichever side will make the regulator, hoses, and gauges stick out the right direction when it's slung. Place a hose clamp around the cylinder, over the inner tube section and sling line, then tighten it all the way down. Repeat with a second length of tube and hose clamp right at the base or wherever it needs to be for the dimensions of your cylinder. With two clips attached thusly, one right at the break of the shoulder, you should be ready to sling. Just clip on and go.
Now, let me put in my two cents about slinging: Slinging along your left front side from an upper D-ring to a hip D-ring is likely to be *much* more pleasant than slinging across hip-to-hip. With the cylinder perpendicular to your direction of swimming, it'll produce much more drag. Slinging it aligned with your direction of travel works out *much* better when you're swimming along underwater. That said, if you'd like to unclip the top and reclip it to your right hip D-ring when exiting the water, that's perfectly fine. I just would *not* recommend it underwater, unless you're a public safety diver doing blackwater search and recovery, in which case you have no use for swimming efficiency (you're probably crawling most of the time, anyway).
You'll have to see whether the 13cf cylinder is sufficiently long to sling on your BC. I have a 19cf on which I have to have the lower clip and clamp right at the base in order for it to fit the D-ring spacing on my jacket BC. A 13cf cylinder would not be sufficiently long to bridge the gap, which would pretty much prevent me from being able to sling it on that BC.
Where can I buy a 13 Cu Ft pony bottle in a color other than bright yellow?
If I recall my observations from last weekend, there is a 13cf brushed aluminum pony bottle sitting upright on the floor in my LDS at this very moment. I'm pretty sure you could have your LDS order what you need directly from the supplier, if you have a particular preference. (It may be a bit more for shipping, but you can get what you want.)
I am set on 13 Ct Ft as it only needs to get me up from 100ft safely. I do not go into the wrecks.
Unlike most of the other responses, I will not try to politic you into choosing something else. I chose a 19cf pony because I wanted to have *ample* supply for an ascent with stops. My calculations showed that a 19cf pony would be sufficient for an ascent (with deep and shallow stops) from 115 fsw with a highly-inflated consumption rate, which was my personal requirement. Equally important was the aforementioned geometric consideration. The 13cf was just plain stubby -- anything shorter than a 19cf wouldn't even have enough height to bungee the reg hose without it hanging off.
I also have a 30cf (picked up on the cheap, just because), which feels noticeably larger than my 19cf. For all my normal, recreational diving, I dive the 19cf, and it's never felt in the way (slung shoulder-to-waist on my BC, and now shoulder-to-hip on my backplate rig). It's your decision, of course, but if you have opportunity to try diving an AL13 and an AL19, it might be worth the air to see how they actually feel underwater.