kafkaland
Contributor
There are two fundamental aspects to your question. First, what kind of dive profile, and consequently Deco/NDL are you comfortable with. There is no universal answer to this, only you can decide. There are very aggressively algorithms, especially when it comes to multiple dives, like DSAT. On the other hand, you can dive much more conservatively, with ZHL-16 and 30/70 gradient factors, for instance. Only you can decide how much risk you are willing to take, and if there are any factors that advise caution, like cold water, strong currents, you being older or out of shape, or having a hangover from the night before. After you have done a few dives near the NDL for your chosen algorithm, ask yourself routinely how you feel, and if there's any indication of fatigue or such, go more conservative the next time.
The second part is the team aspect. The rule is that the most conservative choice of NDL or deco algorithm detemines the ascent profile for all. So when you're reaching your limit, signal to your buddies, and they ought to ascend with you, on your schedule. And no reason for you to feel bad about this. That's how diving in a team works. It might not be a bad idea, though, to discuss this with your dive buddies before you splash, especially if you dive a very conservative or very aggressive algorithm, so that everyone knows what to expect.
Oh, and if you're routinely scratching at the NDL, consider getting deco training. It's very liberating to think more about ascent profiles and contingency plans instead of a rigid NDL number when planning your dive.
The second part is the team aspect. The rule is that the most conservative choice of NDL or deco algorithm detemines the ascent profile for all. So when you're reaching your limit, signal to your buddies, and they ought to ascend with you, on your schedule. And no reason for you to feel bad about this. That's how diving in a team works. It might not be a bad idea, though, to discuss this with your dive buddies before you splash, especially if you dive a very conservative or very aggressive algorithm, so that everyone knows what to expect.
Oh, and if you're routinely scratching at the NDL, consider getting deco training. It's very liberating to think more about ascent profiles and contingency plans instead of a rigid NDL number when planning your dive.