If you are nervous, you're stressed.
My way of reducing stress is to stop swimming, grab ahold of something and spend a minute or 2 doing absolutely nothing but breathing, eventually you find that breathing doesn't hurt, works file and your mentals demons have quieted down, now you can slowly check your gear and reestablish boyancy. When your head tells you that it's safe to continue, now it's time to slowly continue your dive.
Remember diving is not a sport, carrying dive gear is a sport, underwater you should move slowly enough to relax and enjoy the dive. If after teaching your buddies that you stress out underwater, they continue to stress you out, it's time to find new buddies that can relax you.
Michael
My way of reducing stress is to stop swimming, grab ahold of something and spend a minute or 2 doing absolutely nothing but breathing, eventually you find that breathing doesn't hurt, works file and your mentals demons have quieted down, now you can slowly check your gear and reestablish boyancy. When your head tells you that it's safe to continue, now it's time to slowly continue your dive.
Remember diving is not a sport, carrying dive gear is a sport, underwater you should move slowly enough to relax and enjoy the dive. If after teaching your buddies that you stress out underwater, they continue to stress you out, it's time to find new buddies that can relax you.
Michael