Can you please list the Mcmaster web site you referred to for the quick disconnect couplings.
Mcmaster Carr or mcmaster.com is the best source for dive gear... I mean hardware out there. Everything is usually in stock and ships same day.
The parts you will need/want for a quick disconnect are:
5012K83 Acetal Quick-Disconnect Tube Coupling, Socket For 3/8" Tube Id, 1/4" Coupler, Shut-Off
5012K72 Acetal Quick-Disconnect Tube Coupling, Plug For 3/8"TUBE Id, 1/4" Coupler, Straight Thru
5012K86 Acetal Quick-Disconnect Tube Coupling, Plug For 3/8"TUBE Id, 1/4" Coupler, Shut-Off
the hose is item # 51075K29 too.
So here is what I did:
#1 cut length of hose 2-4 inches long
#2 install male to male barbed 3/8" coupling (comes with p-valve) in one end of the hose you just cut.
#3 install 5012K83 into the other end of the short hose you just cut.
*** the fittings are 3/8" but the hose is 1/4", this means those fittings are gonna be very tight and hard to put in but you won't need to remove them or use hose clamps. If its to hard try filling a small glass with water and a tooth pick (if you don't know why don't ask) and microwave it until its hot then place the hose in the water to soften it but don't burn yourself.
So you have a 2-4" piece of hose with a socket on one end and a barbed fitting on the other, good. This it the piece you will attach to your condom cath and then leave attached to you. Then you don suit, plug in, and go diving. When the dive is done you can remove suit, unplug without spillage (maybe like 2 drops), pack up suit, take home and flush out and hang out to dry. So yes, I walk around all day with a condom on and a hose attached to it.
*** so those fitting are shut off fittings, that means you can't pee if your not hooked up. I solved this by taking a bit of cave line and attaching a flow through plug to the hose so if I have to use the rest room I need only plug in to go.
If this isn't clear I can add pics of the parts.
I would order at least 2 of each part number and 2 ft or so of tubing. You might get an extra set of the much cheaper flow through parts (plug and socket) to keep in the save a dive bag too since they are a fraction of the price and if someone needs a part or yours breaks you at least have something handy.
and this thread may be of assistance to you also:
The Deco Stop
The Deco Stop has several threads on this issue with pictures or drawings if you use the search feature to find them.