Worth the read though. There are a few camps and it comes down to QD vs no QD and wideband vs not wideband.
QD is simple, reliable, and a secondary seal in case your one way valve fails and you're not connected.
Wideband gives way more glue area for your member and offers more reliable sealing for prolonged wearing.
Make sure your shaft is clean and you'll be fine. Hair removal makes cath removal less intense. I remove the QD and then pull the cath off with no issues, just go slow and let the adhesive release.
Approximate routing here. The hose goes into my undergarment before looping down. Mine have a hole for it on the leg but I find the zipper is easiest.
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