Leejnd
Contributor
That's an important question. A "No" answer to it would be a good reason to step back and consider taking up something more long the lines of knitting.
I'm sorry, but I think that is unnecessarily harsh, and utterly counterproductive to the purpose of this forum.
As someone who recently posted my own near-miss, and (predictably) was subjected to a rather unpleasant flurry of darts thrown at me, I can tell you that it takes a helluva lot of guts to post anything in here. I have seen it more times than I can count, and so has anyone else who has ever posted their own incident. The moment you post your near-miss experience, every action you took, every thought you had, every nuance of your dive is going to get picked apart like a turkey carcass on T-day. Somebody will find something wrong with every single thing you did, and come up with a lengthy laundry list of things you should have done.
I'm not saying that there is never any validity to any of these "darts". The whole purpose of this forum is to analyze incidents, learn from them, and become better, safer divers. What I AM saying is that this can be done without totally trashing the OP. Which is what happens in here all too often.
This last comment, DA, IMO falls squarely in the "totally trashing" category. Comments like this just make people reluctant to share their own near-miss stories, for fear of somebody doing that to them. Trust me, I thought long and hard before I posted my own...but I felt I had an important story to tell, so I sucked it up and took the darts that were thrown at me. But it didn't feel good, lemme tell ya. And I received quite a few PMs along the way saying "you got guts - I would NEVER post my story here!"
What does that say about how we treat divers brave enough to share their stories? What does that say about the future viability of this forum as a learning tool, if we turn on our own like freaking piranhas in a frenzy at the first opportunity?
Let's look at this specific incident, and I will tell you why I disagree with you, and why I feel your last comment was completely and utterly out-of-line.
1. You seem to feel that the fact that there was a leak at all was an indication of failure on the OP's part...he didn't do a proper pre-dive check, or whatever. That is an erroneous assumption. His subsequent post indicates that it's entirely possible this cropped up later into the dive, and there was no way he could have known about it in advance.
2. You criticized the location of the octopus. His subsequent post indicates that it's in an acceptable location, and the circumstances of the dive (location of others etc.) meant that nobody could have seen the bubbles from the leak.
3. You criticized his decision to ascend, rather than swim to his buddy. His subsequent post indicates that there were other circumstances that made ascending appear to be the best choice. You weren't there -- it's entirely possible that it WAS the best choice. Obviously, in an overhead environment that wouldn't have been an option...but this was OW, and it WAS an option, and one that evidently appeared to him to be the best one. In this case, I do believe you are practicing classic "Monday morning quarterbacking" inasmuch as you are making an assumption without all the facts...or with a possibly faulty interpretation of the facts presented. The OP, who WAS there, has every right to disagree with you...without being basically told by you that he should quit diving and start knitting.
4. You castigated him for supposedly putting other divers at risk by "obligating" the guide to follow him to help. Even before I read the OP's response, I disagreed with you on that...I felt it was an inaccurate reading of his post. And his subsequent response clarified this: the guide leaving the group to help him did not put anyone in danger whatsoever. Have you forgotten that these were all certified divers, each with their own buddy? If the guide leaving them to assist a diver in trouble was putting any of them in danger, then they shouldn't have been on that dive to begin with. Certified divers shouldn't require a guide to be safe.
I could go on, but I hope my point has been made: you jumped to conclusions, you went too far, and that last comment about knitting was just plain nasty. We do NOT need that kind of nastiness in this forum, directed at the few brave divers who are willing to share their stories in here to help the rest of us learn.
I want to end by saying I completely understand your original intentions in your analysis of his dive: you are looking for ways for us to learn from this incident. That is an admirable intention, and is, in fact, the purpose of this forum. My problem is with your delivery. And, even worse, your ugly and unnecessary "knitting" comment. What does behavior like that add to the forum? Come on...do you have to be so rude?