Mike
Contributor
If you will notice, the sentence of my post that was bolded says he should go to his buddy for gas, IF HE NEEDED GAS. In this case, he didn't, but he didn't know it. As I said earlier, one of the takeaways for me from this story is that it may be useful to take our students through a quick differential diagnosis of regulator problems, and what to do or try in the event that they occur. A wet reg should immediately prompt a switch to the backup reg; there really aren't any failures that are going to deliver water to both second stages. A reg which suddenly stops delivering gas is much more likely to be a first stage problem, or a dip tube problem (or an out-of-gas problem) where switching to the backup reg is unlikely to solve the problem. However, while one is moving toward one's buddy, assuming said buddy was not immediately at hand, trying the backup reg is not a bad interim move.
Personally, I would much rather have a person who is having trouble securing a source of breathable gas go, at least temporarily, to his buddy, than persist in ineffective attempts at self-rescue until the problem becomes truly unmanageably urgent. Once a diver is on his buddy's backup, he has a whole LOT of time to inspect his equipment and try various options, at leisure and calmly. While he is in the water without a source of breathing gas, time is very severely limited, and his thinking is unlikely to be methodical.
Totally agree with you. If your primary fails, you go to your back up reg, if that fails you go to your buddy's air. However with a diver with so few dives, combined with being over his head being on a night dive, sucking in water on his reg, only a super cool as a cucumber inexperienced diver is probably going to think to go to back up reg first. At least he survived it with no injuries and his wife survived being abandoned. Alls well then ends well and hopefully he got a dose of reality and will slow down and start thinking about dive safety more now. We've all made mistakes and the wealth of experience on scubaboard can help any diver become a safer and better diver if you seek it out which he seems to be doing.