Mike
Contributor
Yes, surely we should learn to rely on our buddies. In this situation we were in a group with a DM (he is an instructor). There was no way I was going to swim back to my buddy in this situation.
You should never be in a situation where you have to swim back to your buddy. If you swam over, up, down, which ever, to the dive master to signal him, your buddy should have been swimming right along side of you the whole time.
I think you might be missing the point of the reason you dive with a dive buddy. You and your buddy should never be further than one breath away from each other.