I don't know any details of this dive so this may be misguided towards Ed and if so, apologies to all...
Since Ed knew this was your first ocean dive and he hosted this event; he should have done a better job seeing that you got a decent buddy.
I am wondering if Ed is a DM of a shop putting on this little get together or is Ed some dude that says "hey, anyone up for a dive this weekend...?" Because if Ed was a DM of a shop putting this together then Ed should have been responsible for Tracy and hers well being... (using "her" as it was used in a previous post) Not taking Tracy off the hook but Ed sure knows better (assumption here!!!) but this type of attitude is getting people killed out here!
Ultimately though it is your responsibility to find someone in the group who is willing to accept the responsibility to buddy with you or hire a guide.
Tracy got what, a dozen or so dives... excited about diving the ocean without the restraints of a pool or Devils Den... Just what the heck do we really expect Tracy to know at this point??? Please do not point out that she is AOW because this means nothing more than you performed a couple of trivial task and has little to do with "real world" situations...!
It's very understandable for someone who has just paid for this trip to not want to spend their time looking after a Newbie
True but from reading, Ed was aware that this was Tracy first ocean dive, poor visibility, carrying a camera, without a partner, and what ever else is wrong with this picture... Ed could have said "No" to Tracy for this dive or was there a monetary gain involved? Ed should have either budded up with her himself or made sue that she had a responsible partner... Should have told Tracy to leave the camera on the boat for the first dive and maybe the second dive depending on how she performed on the first... I read Tracy was down to 40' and that is the only mention I saw, how deep was this dive???
Tracy, with all due respect; leave the camera alone until you have a very good grasp of your basic skills... e.g. buoyancy, trim, breathing, awareness, responsibilities, and others.... I bet you a ten dollar gold piece you have never ever deployed a SMB from 20-30' or deeper.... I never had through AOW but it was something I practiced and if you have not, practice... There is more to it than just adding air and letting go...!
Looks like you live in Tampa... if so, you should get alot of diving in! Repetition is what will help you with diving because diving 100 times in a year will drive home skills... but someone who has 100 dives over 10-15 years never really learns how to dive... but that is only my opinion...! I know your probably happy to be out of the springs but find a buddy to grow with or a mentor who will take the time to show you the ropes... On some dives, I love helping those who have just started (I only started a couple of years ago myself but I dive alot) but there are some dives where I am all about me... like when I am diving the Meg ledges...
Good luck and be safe... lee
PS When we take folks out to the Meg ledges, they must be AOW, and not just the title, you have to have experience diving North Carolina waters and with a pony... No exceptions...!