Glad to help, if you need a buddy for a trip , let us know here. There are several divers from the general NC area that may be able to hookup with you. You will have no trouble with our waters, it's just that I see lots of people that are use to flat, shallow water or very new divers that come to our coast and get in way over their heads so I feel obligated to give people a little insite into what our diving conditions are really like. I have seen better than 50% of a boat hanging over the rail before we got half way to the wreck. That's not any fun and a "Carolina ladder ride" is nothing for the faint of heart.
By the way, Raleigh is about 1 1/2 hr from Pinehurst and we have 3 good dive shops here as well as a very good repair shop so if you need anything, we are not too far away.