Please do let us know how it goes.So I will be getting a different instructor and hope it all works out. I will definitely stop with any of my dives if I don't feel comfortable or the instructor is another lemon. I was assured that I will be getting a proper weight check before any dive I do for the class. I will update this thread with my progress.
Also, I wouldn't want a 'take-away' message for this thread to be, 'Change to a jacket BCD for your OW dives', although has been suggested. There are even some instructors who argue that OE training cannot be conducted in a BP/W, which I believe to be complete rubbish. Instead, I offer kudos to you for starting off with a BP/W, from a good supplier (DSS). You made a good decision. Stick with your BP/W, for your OW dives and beyond. You won't regret it.
And, Tobin is a fantastic resource. Sometimes, it helps to have a local set of eyes look over your rig after you have assembled it, and after you have donned it, to be sure that your initial adjustments are optimal.
Since you will be going from Confined Water into Open Water, and presumably adding some neoprene, that initial weight check will be critical. As you pursue your Open water dives for certification, with appropriate weighting, and a pace that allows you to learn, perform the requirements, end enjoy the experience, you will be opening the door to a great adventure.