Thanks everyone for all the answers. It definitely cleared up a few things. I think I'll carry forward with the following plan:
1. Wetsuit should be 3 mil or less
2. Get some real fins instead of my little shorty travel fins
3. Establish my neutral point with an AL80 at 500psi using permanent weights
4. Add 2 to 4 lbs as drop weight
As I understand it this will put me good enough at safety stop, the ability to kick to surface if needed, and the option to adjust weight as needed in the weight pockets until I determine my final weight plan.