Bob,
using your logic, I am certain that you have screwdrivers available at every window and door since you don't see them as a threat.

It's not that we are banning screwdrivers (the smiley), we just aren't making them as convenient for people to access. This is an attempt to keep honest people just that and nothing more. So far, it seems to be working and the protests are coming mostly from those who routinely abused it. It's just a tad ironic, doncha think?
No Pete ... that's not my logic at all.
My logic is that you're making decisions that affect all 200,000 users of your board based on the actions of maybe a dozen members.
A couple years back you made the same decision when you disabled the "Thanks" feature ... based on the fact that a handful of members were using it in ways that you considered abusiive. Basically, they were Thanking each other for posts that struck you as "dogpiling". And therefore everyone lost the "Thanks" feature.
Now, if you look at who's been using the popcorn smiley in a way that you have decided is unfriendly, you'll discover that it's basically those same people. And so once again you're responding to what you perceive as their bad behavior by removing the means they're using to express themselves. And once again, the vast majority of people who are affected by it weren't using it in the manner you've based your decision on.
So what makes you think this same small group of users won't just go find some other smiley ... or some other feature ... that will enable them to continue doing the same thing again? What's next, Pete ... remove the "Like" function? I've already seen a couple of people complaining that people who make snarky comments get "Liked" by their friends ... and once again, they're complaining about the same users who misused the Thanks and the popcorn smiley.
You can't change someone's behavior by taking away their toys, Pete ... they'll just find something else to play with. You have to address the behavior at the source ... and the source isn't the tool, it's the person who's misusing it. What you're doing amounts to TSA management practices ... one guy gets on a plane with explosives in his shoe, so now everybody has to take their shoes off. It doesn't address the problem ... it just gives the appearance that you're doing something about it.
If the board looks "unfriendly" because a handful of people are misusing a tool, you aren't going to make it any friendlier by removing the tool ... you have to address it at the level of those who are misusing it.
And for the record, I own a drawer full of screwdrivers ... and I've never once used one to break into someone's house. I'd be mighty upset if someone decided to ban screwdrivers ... or even make it harder for me to own one ... because of the actions of a few people who misused them.
Also for the record, I'm not the least bit concerned about the smiley ... I almost never used it anyway. I have other ways of expressing myself. My concern is that the manner in which you're trying to resolve the problem is ineffective, and basically treats everyone as though they were the ones who were misbehaving. In that respect, Pete, it isn't the miscreants that are making the board less friendly ... it's the management team that behaves as though they are assuming that no one is capable of using the features of the board responsibly ...
... Bob (Grateful Diver)