gangrel441
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MSilvia:Likewise, I think your position is reasonable, and I think the biggest difference in our positions might stem from our having different expectations of charter crew. The bulk of my charter diving is done locally, and aside from a brief topside briefing, I don't expect anyone on the crew to lead or guide my dive. I pay for a taxi ride to the dive sites (and possibly a snack or some help getting back on board in choppy conditions), and as such, I don't feel much need to give anyone a "snapshot" of my experience. I'm used to asking a crewmember for help when I need it, and being left to my own devices otherwise. If I were obviously struggling to set up my gear, strapping the tank in backwards and having to reposition it when I realized I screwed up, acting nervous, not listening, or things like that, I might expect something different.
At the same time, when I dive on vacation, it's been my experience that DMs can tell that I'm used to diving without hand-holding by the way I set up and check out my gear, the way I go through pre-dive with buddies, and other more subtle indicators of experience. Without showing any particularly interesting credentials, I've had several DMs turn to me as someone who could help them, rather than someone needing help.
To paraphrase one request I was happy to comply with, "Would you mind going down and telling those guys to wait for me by that big coral head while I help this woman get her weight belt on?"
My wife and I do not need hand-holding, and have had many similar experiiences in terms of carrying ourselves well as divers. We have also had less experienced divers approach us to ask how we perform some tasks underwater, such as hovering techniques and holding safety stops without the hang bar. Occasionally we offer a few tips, but since we are not instructors, we most often refer these divers to on-duty instructors within our group.
MSilvia:PADI EANx and/or rescue if that's adequate, otherwise IANTD recreational trimix.
I can see that. An earlier poster mentioned that he would never show Rescue. I believe showing rescue is in line with why I would show a MSD with EANx.
MSilvia:Again, there's the rub... I'm not accustomed to diving with a guide at all. I'm used to the captain giving a briefing along the lines of "We're tied off to a mooring on the bow of the wreck, and it looks like there might be some current down there. She's pretty well broken up, but if you head north you should find the stern semi-intact. "The pool's open", so hop in as soon as you guys are ready. The vis should be okay, but it was less than 5' on wednesday."
Oh, I have done plenty of "pool's open" dives, and have no problem with this. I have, however, been with plenty of operations where this is not how they run their dives. If part of their dive breifing is "everyone stick together and follow me," then my wife and I dive as a buddy group and do our thing on the dive, keeping aware of where the group is going and staying within a reasonable distance. When in an unfamiliar location, we may even stay quite close to the guide because he may point out some local critters which we could otherwise have missed. Then we know how to find them on subsequent dives.


MSilvia:If your boat crew is doing something analogous to giving a lesson, I suppose having something analogous to belt would be useful. Of course, if you had two students out of uniform, and one was in top physical condition, attentive, respectful, graceful, and quiet, and the other was out of shape, loudly bragging about how much butt he can kick, and clumsily playing with a set of official ninja-brand throwing stars, you'd know without seeing their belts which one is more likely an accomplished martial artist, right?
Very plausable, and happens often. Point, however, was that if even a few of them are wearing uniforms and belts, it narrows the amount of guesswork I have to do. I am just trying to make it easier on the guide.