The OP asked about "safe and balanced"The thickness of the wetsuit only matters if you need to add lead. If you're in a 1mm and don't require any extra lead, you would actually be more overweighted than if you were in a 7mm and didnt need extra lead. In the 1mm you would be just as heavy, you just would be heavy at depth and at the surface.
Am i misinterpreting?
In general a wetsuit and double steels is a bad idea because they are negative and in a thick wetsuit if you have a wing failure you not only have to swim up the weight of the gas, you have to counteract the amount of suit compression. If the suit is thin and hence essentially there's no buoyancy to lose, you only have to swim up the ~15lbs of gas in the tanks no matter what depth you are at. In a 7mm wetsuit at 150ft (example) you have to swim up the 15lbs of gas plus the 15+lbs of lost suit buoyancy. Swimming up 30+lbs is not considered balanced and ditching lead with a possible deco obligation is a bad idea.
Which is why AL80s are generally the recommended tanks in a wetsuit.