"What was wrong with my skills and training, that attributed to this incident?
You didn't opt to resolve the slipped tank yourself. Why not?"
I was hovering at 50 feet initially and i don't know about you but I am not an octopus and I can't dislocate my shoulders to put my arms behind my back and re-attach the velcro that attaches the tank to my BCD which came apart underwater.
I have never been trained to remove my own gear underwater and the only people that I know of who were trained to do that were divers doing their DMTs
I was trained in quick release of BCD in an emergency (which this could have been had the tank come away)
My point is that i was using a new BCD and i didn't realise that the quick release involved clips that were in a different place so had I panicked I may have gone down because my training was *flick off the weight belt and unclip or inflate*
Had the tank become disconnected i wouldn't have been able to inflate (no air) and the weights would have been in my poskets and I hadn't been trained to release them quickly
it really is my fault. I descended with a new type of gear and was too polite in a way to bother the dive guys who were - frankly - always telling me to chill out
"Owning a chisel, hammer and drill doesn't necessarily make you a carpenter. Learning the basic OW skills doesn't make you a diver either" <--- DevonDiver
wtf does that mean?
I don't believe there was anything offensive in the advice given by DevonDiver.
As a matter of fact, it was quite constructive and objective.
I think he means that the OW training gives you the basics you need to make reasonable judgements in most situations.
Ditch and don were taught as part of my NAUI open water course.
I was certified in 2004.
It is my understanding that this should also be taught as part of the PADI OW course also. I am not sure which agency your instructor was affiliated with.
Having said that, ditch and don is usually taught on the bottom of the pool or on the surface and not in midwater.
I agree, that ditch and don at 50 fsw in the middle of the water column would not have been a very good idea given your background and the situation you described.
I do believe that you could have fixed this situation on the surface before getting back onto the boat. You could have ditched the BC and floated the BC on the surface, reattached the cylinder and donned the BC prior to getting back on the boat.
Then again if this was not covered in your OW course you might not have known you could actually do this.
I would not beat yourself up over this. You made it back to the surface safely and you are making a serious attempt to learn from the experience. You have been given some good advice from DevonDiver and others that you can digest and utilize going forward.
I would suggest you contact your OW instructor and have him/her go over ditch and don with you since they should have done this in your OW classes.
Try to incorporate the suggestion into your future dives.