Sounds to me like you have some significant air trapping, leading to over weighting, leading to over inflated wing and or suit. What suit do you have?
We are the same height, but I've got about 40 lbs of body wieght on you. Last time I dove dry in California, I think I had 14 lbs, plus a steel BP and steel 100 tank (I think? it might have been a weird steel 80 or old 72). So about 25ish lbs. I was wearing medium weight polypro undergarments and a compressed neoprene suit.
Unless you are wearing huge fluffy undergarments, you sound way over weighted.
It's a Seaskin trilam, and I'm using a thin Seaskin wicking layer and DUI DuoTherm 300 undies, which I believe are a poly fleece of around 500 gsm weight. Something like that, anyway. I also wore a thin-ish wool ski sock last time (on recommendation from @stuartv, actually). The numbers you and @Marie13 mentioned do suggest that I might be running around with too much lead, possibly to compensate for the skills issue of bubble management. However I can't just take your height and weight at face value, since I don't know whether your extra 40 lbs is all muscle, all fat, all bone, or what -- your body might be denser or less dense than mine overall, I don't have enough info to say. Right?
I went back and re-read the OP.
There are a lot of things I might agree with saying "wait on that until you get more experience". This issue of fins in your drysuit is not one of them.
From the details in the OP, I would say try the regular F1 fins ASAP. I suspect they will work well for you. At least, they will not make you foot heavy, I don't think. And if they do, that just lets you let a little air into your feet to compensate.
If they are comfy and work for you, then don't waste more time on the Deep6 fins. Get some F1s. If you really don't want all black, they have the Yellow Tip option.
Mine are all black, but I got red and white Scotchlite reflective trailer safety tape and put it on mine. It has stayed on, no problem, for years now. The red is still there. The white finally came off just in the last couple of months. The reflective white (on the bottoms) has definitely helped my buddies to keep track of me in very low viz water. The yellow tips do a similar job (I say after diving with buddies in the past that have those).
Thanks Stuart. I think we're up to 7 recommendations to try my buddy's F1s, so I'll definitely do that! Interesting idea on the reflective tape, I've never seen that before. Do you have any photos?