Hello,
My wife and I were in PG 2 yrs ago and I am itching to get back. She is hesitant due to the long flights
how do you deal with the flights? any way to make them easier for her??
Thanks
Paul
Be selective about your airlines. Tracking prices and being familiar with what it normally costs or should cost will allow you to take advantage of a nice fare on a more comfortable airline. The food, service, and in-flight comfort/amenities will directly affect her experience. China Eastern/Southern...No thanks. United is OK, but Cathay, Singapore, EVA, etc., are better. I find flight times also make a difference. When I fly west to Asia from California, I like to depart in the evening and arrive in the morning. It's easier to manage the jet lag this way.
You can pick flights that have strategic stopovers - stay a couple of days and see the sights, shop, eat, etc. If you're coming from PA, stop somewhere in California then continue on. Or, pick an airport that has better food or a nicer lounge for you to access. Some ideas might be Hong Kong, Singapore, etc. You may get access if you have frequent flyer benefits or if you apply for a Priority Pass membership. Some credit cards offer a membership for free so check with yours.
I always wear comfortable clothing and compression socks. I also like to bring a footrest onto a flight with me as it helps support me better, whether I am just watching TV, reading, sleeping, etc. I bring super light inflatable pillows for my back or sides as well. I can customize how firm or soft it is. Earplugs and a nice eye mask are a must, as are noise cancelling headphones. I used to be all about the Bose, but the new Sony WH-1000XM3s are amazing. Bring some melatonin to help you nod off to sleep. I don't drink alcohol as I'm allergic to it but supposedly, it does dehydrate you a bit more which can make jet lag even more difficult to manage, though it does tend to relax you a bit more.
Sometimes, flying in economy for that amount of time is not easily done for others as it is for me. You can also look for some premium economy options which are usually available on Cathay, Singapore, EVA. This is not the same as United's Economy Plus - it is a whole different class with different food and substantially more space.
Sometimes, showing her lots of amazing dive videos that are professionally done on YouTube or Vimeo is enough to make her feel like the trek is worth it.

It always works for me and Mr. OOO.
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