Nehallenia
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scbababe:Hi Nehallenia! It's not a waste of time, O.K..... It's easier than you think. You have his e-mail address and you're both in the same line of work, right!
Anything worth having is worth planning and developing.(Take your time, don't rush into anything right away). You already sent him an E-mail and he responded, good! Don't expect him to pour his heart out on his first reply...
Sharing how you feel to early in a relationship or encounter is not a good idea.
Be cool...E-mail him again in a few days and try to mention something work related, you know keep it simple. Ask him how his family feels about all the traveling he does. From his reply you'll find out if he has one or not...
Oh.. and about that old lady thing. It's not how old or young or how pretty one is or how fat or skinny you are...
It's how you handle your self that counts!
Well, have emailed again and received a reply again. With indication that the correspondence will continue. No definite word yea or nay re: SO. I know I shouldn't share how I feel - it is too confused!!
It was just WEIRD to find myself thinking "I wonder how many women this guy has slept with", and caring, when I didn't really find him physically compelling. Although I must say I liked the way he moved . . . he was so relaxed, and natural, and confident - I was very impressed! I refused to go out for a drink with him because I was afraid of what I might do (make a fool of myself; do something I would regret later. etc.). Has anyone else had an experience like this???
Oh - yes, I think it is how you present yourself that counts: when I thought I was ugly and unacceptable, I was treated that way. When I became friendly and outgoing and acted attractive, I was perceived that way and have been amazed at the flattering responses I get. Now I never miss an opportunity to give someone a sincere compliment, or be friendly or understanding - I know how much it can mean to someone.