lulubelle
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I recently dove with someone for the first time who had about the same number of dives as I do. He was very nervous and unsure of himself in the water. This resulted quite a few scary moments for me when he would do something impulsive without communicating with me such as a rapid ascent because he was unsure of what his computer display meant or how to problem solve calmly, would disappear with someone else he was following while I was looking at something leaving me in a solo dive, and was disinterested in being responsible for navigation to any degree. So it gave me cause to think about what it was that really bothered me about diving with him.
1. I'm OK with a nervous diver. BUT. I think it is critical to be honest with your dive buddy about what you are solid with, and what you are not, to develop your dive plan accordingly along with contingency plans for areas in which you need assistance, and to dive your plan.
2. Always evaluate your own skills and seek help in improving them. I realized that I was only comfortable with natural navigation and it made me nervous when my buddy would not take any interest in navigating at all. I realized that my compass skills stink, probably because I did my AOW on the wrecks here. So I have asked a local navigation guru to spend some time with me at the quarry this coming weekend in our lovely 5 feet vis to practice nav skills with me.
1. I'm OK with a nervous diver. BUT. I think it is critical to be honest with your dive buddy about what you are solid with, and what you are not, to develop your dive plan accordingly along with contingency plans for areas in which you need assistance, and to dive your plan.
2. Always evaluate your own skills and seek help in improving them. I realized that I was only comfortable with natural navigation and it made me nervous when my buddy would not take any interest in navigating at all. I realized that my compass skills stink, probably because I did my AOW on the wrecks here. So I have asked a local navigation guru to spend some time with me at the quarry this coming weekend in our lovely 5 feet vis to practice nav skills with me.