just don't get it ladies help please.

[Adrenalinerush]

Maybe I am just being insecure or maybe I'm not. This girl (who's 20 ) for like 2 weeks has been txting me asking what im doing and what not. just friendly bs. Then monday it stopped. She's barely talked to or looked at me all week and I cann't figure out why. like today when we were alone she barely said anything, arms crossed and looking the other way when I talked to her. It's this that makes me think I did something. I asked her what was wrong and of course she said nothing and I asked if she was mad at me said no. But I get this vibe I 've made her mad, annoyed her or she uncomfortable around me. How can I find out? At should I just let her be and let her come around? I am just reading too much into nothing? I am guessing I shouldn't ask her friend if she knows whats up w/ her? Should I even trying talking to her, not about whatever is wrong but just in general?

 

[dherbman]

Maybe she's a member of SB. Seeing that you are from Chicago, I'd bet Jepuskar has soemthing to do with it.

 

[BIGSAGE136]

Bonk her over the head, drag her back to your cave, and feed her choclate.

 

[Hemlon]

Write her off and move on.

 

[Adrenalinerush]

well let's see she doesn't SCUBA so she's not a member of SB so thats not it.
not sure what the cave and choclate is suppose to mean since we just friends but nice try at being funny.

and I do not write friends off that fast.

 

[TheRedHead]

She's mad at you.

 

[BIGSAGE136]

You used the "F" word. I think you already hit it on the head.

 

[scubamickey]

You've already pissed her off by not knowing what was wrong in the first place. Go back and review the content of those messages. I assure you---you said, or failed to say, something very critical.

Don't try to understand it. Just apologize

 

[TSandM]

My first thought is that you didn't take her up on her interest fast enough, or obviously enough, and now she feels embarassed for having been so pushy.

 

[Web Monkey]

First, if she's been txting you for 2 weeks, it's not because she gets a comission from your cell phone provider and it's not because she has a burning interest in what you watched on TV last night.

I suspect you blew it by not being perceptive enough to pick up on her signals.

Now she's **ssed at you for being too dense to pick up on what she wanted, and she's upset at herself for being attracted to a guy who turned out to not have a clue what she was about.

Or maybe you ordered a Grolsch beer and her ex also drank Grolsch.

Welcome to the world of 20-year olds. I'm very happy to have left that behind me (twice) .

FWIW, if you can hold out for a while, they get more rational as they get older.

Terry

Maybe I am just being insecure or maybe I'm not. This girl (who's 20 ) for like 2 weeks has been txting me asking what im doing and what not. just friendly bs. Then monday it stopped. She's barely talked to or looked at me all week and I cann't figure out why. like today when we were alone she barely said anything, arms crossed and looking the other way when I talked to her. It's this that makes me think I did something. I asked her what was wrong and of course she said nothing and I asked if she was mad at me said no. But I get this vibe I 've made her mad, annoyed her or she uncomfortable around me. How can I find out? At should I just let her be and let her come around? I am just reading too much into nothing? I am guessing I shouldn't ask her friend if she knows whats up w/ her? Should I even trying talking to her, not about whatever is wrong but just in general?