BioLogic
Contributor
... to call a dive when your buddy doesn't want it thumbed.
Ok, with my regular buddy it's not hard; we've both bought well into the 'Any diver can call the dive at any time for any reason'.
On Sunday though I was diving with a guy I'd just met. He'd driven a long way for the dive and was pleased to get a chance to do his first night dive. He had a mix of newly arrived purchases and rental gear, and he had all kinds of minor equipment issues. We worked through some of them, but he was getting pretty frustrated and his stress level got to the point where I wasn't happy about diving a new experience with him. He wanted to sort out the last issue (he had a good plan for it) and go for it, but I declined.
I found it really hard to disappoint the guy and essentially deny him the dive. I don't regret it, but yeah, I found it hard. This case turned out ok, because we (four of us total) watched the fireworks floating on the surface (highly recommended!!), and by then he was destressed and his issues were sorted out, so we all got in a short dive before we had to end it.
Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to call a dive but found it socially uncomfortable? How did you handle it?
Ok, with my regular buddy it's not hard; we've both bought well into the 'Any diver can call the dive at any time for any reason'.
On Sunday though I was diving with a guy I'd just met. He'd driven a long way for the dive and was pleased to get a chance to do his first night dive. He had a mix of newly arrived purchases and rental gear, and he had all kinds of minor equipment issues. We worked through some of them, but he was getting pretty frustrated and his stress level got to the point where I wasn't happy about diving a new experience with him. He wanted to sort out the last issue (he had a good plan for it) and go for it, but I declined.
I found it really hard to disappoint the guy and essentially deny him the dive. I don't regret it, but yeah, I found it hard. This case turned out ok, because we (four of us total) watched the fireworks floating on the surface (highly recommended!!), and by then he was destressed and his issues were sorted out, so we all got in a short dive before we had to end it.
Have you ever been in a situation where you wanted to call a dive but found it socially uncomfortable? How did you handle it?