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Can't discuss the benefits without discussing the dangers of Nitrox either. I wouldn't want to discuss that either if I were pushing Nitrox.
Yep, I'd do a different shop myself. Oh and btw, I am nitrox certified. Have zero need for it. I dive within my computer and have had zero problems.
At recreational depths, times and blends, any dangers associated with Nitrox are far outweighed by the benefits. Moreover, you are ignoring the dangers of air diving.
If you find Nitrox unduly frightening, perhaps you should sign up for a buoyancy course. This will teach you to properly control your depth, so as to avoid unintentionally exceeding your MOD. Once you've learned to control yourself properly in the water, you should consider retaking a Nitrox course from a competant instructor who can help you overcome your fears.
Of course, you should always dive with a buddy and within your limits. Don't let anyone push you into something for which you are not ready. If not comfortable below 40 fsw, for example, then don't let anyone take you deeper.
Diverbrian:
Requiring Nitrox as a prerequisite for other courses would make it difficult for people in areas where Nitrox isn't available. Accordingly, I agree with your statement that it shouldn't be required.
Its important to note, however, that instructors are free to decide who they will teach. The instructors with whom I work don't cater to divers who are afraid of Nitrox and who know when its time to surface because their computers start beeping. I agree with them.
In part, I look at this issue by asking myself whether I would do a dive that falls within the scope of AOW with a buddy on air. Since my answer is no, I don't believe that it is appropriate to teach AOW to divers on air.
We require Nitrox and buoyancy as a prerequisite for other diving courses. People who don't like it are free to take their poodle jacket, their Air2 and their attitude somewhere else.