catherine96821:
I think he was a rude guy. period. He wants to go to 200 feet...fine.
I disagree.
First off let's clarify something. There's a huge difference between what the two instructors in Lynne's example did. There's an even bigger difference between your example and those two ... because Lynne is talking about an instructor/student relationship and you are talking about a parent/child relationship. The two are not at all comparable.
I'll focus my comments on the instuctor/student relationship.
As a student, you are paying for a professional service. During the time your instructor is providing that service there is a duty of care. It's explicit ... and it is guided by the policies and practices of the training agency. If an instructor violates those policies and practices IN ANY WAY, he or she is legally liable for any consequences of that violation. It isn't just someone's right ... but their duty ... to report known violations to the agency, particularly if those violations result in injury or fatality.
Outside of the class we ... NAUI, at least ... have a code of ethics that we agreed to follow when we became a member of the organization. In NAUI's case, becoming a member occurs when you reach a professional level ... DM or instructor. That code of ethics exists because NAUI recognizes that, as a dive professional, not just your students but the public at large will view you as a representative of the dive profession ... and in specific, as a representative of the agency you teach for. By accepting a professional role with the agency, you agree to abide by that code of ethics. It spells out how you will represent yourself to the agency, to your students, and to the public at large. The Board of Directors of the agency retains the right to review your conduct in light of that code, and if you are found in violation they have the right to censure, suspend, or revoke your membership privileges. Basically what that means is that if you do something aggregiously stupid they can decide they don't want you in the club anymore and kick you out.
Engaging in acts that endanger your students ... or even other divers you are accompanying on a dive outside of the classroom ... is at the top of the list of things that can get you kicked out of the organization. NAUI ... like every training agency ... won't long survive if they do not support the tenets of safe diving, and the protocols of safe diving practices.
In the case of last week's diver death, the actions of the instructor were not just unconscionable ... they were negligent. Were it not for his encouragement, this young man would not have been out there attempting this dive, and he would be alive today.
If a diver who is or was a student does something dangerous or stupid because I, as his or her instructor, tell them it's OK ... that "people do it all the time" ... then, because of my relationship with that diver I am culpable.
NAUI recognizes the power of the instructor/student relationship ... and that is the reason they have a code of ethics in their standards and policies manual. That code doesn't apply to me only when I'm "on the clock". It applies to me whenever I'm representing myself as a member of the agency ... whether or not I'm actually teaching a class. Locally ... because I'm known as an instructor ... that's every time I suit up to go diving.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)