Divers dive for the same reason people go bowling, play golf, or go square dancing.
Agree
It's not about the diving!
Don't agree.
At least not a complete agreement. Some people drive forever, sacrifice sleep and do many things to meet a group and share their diving (golfing or dancing).
But how many people are willing to dive with instabuddies (some times a crappy one) as long as they can get wet? It is about the diving.
How about the ones that only DM in order to get free dives, there are a ton out there, if they can speak openly to you there is nothing more than a free dive behind their intentions. It is about the diving.
And then you have the solo divers. No need to elaborate on this one.
One size does not fit all. We are friendly and antisocial, leaders and followers, generous and selfish, pansies and cowboys. Trying to shove divers in one definition is not going to work.
Is it so difficult to have shops and charters open to accept all the styles?
Don't throw me daggers with your eyes when I respectfully decline your invitation to your X-mas party or whatever event get-together; finish the stupid transaction and let me walk away.
I'm an antisocial but who ever has a shop or a charter should not be one. Shop/Charter person should know how to read the customers, you get a chatty one, go for it... rape his ear with all your dive stories.; but how difficult is it to spot the person that doesn't care to chat? are the one syllable or silent responses not obvious enough? IJS