Most do have horrible trim and buoyancy and I know because I've seen it. A whole lot of it. I don't despise them, but I lament their instruction. This whole notion that it "takes a hundred" dives to get your trim and buoyancy to a competent level is a lie. IF you teach it correctly, there's no need for an OW diver to struggle with maintaining their trim and buoyancy to the point they don't bounce off of the reef or can't get down so they can enjoy it. It's a ten-minute discussion about the physics of diving and then its application in the pool from beginning to end. It's not rocket science: it's submarine science. If you don't understand it, and it's not that hard, then how can you hope to succeed?
Many (most?) instructors can't or won't teach trim and buoyancy because they simply don't understand them and their connection. They might teach buoyancy apart from trim, but that's a fool's errand. The Budha hover is a parlor trick and nothing more. You can't really have buoyancy without trim and most instructors have horrible trim. How do I know? I see them dive with their students, head up, foot down trying to look cool but not setting a great example. Sometimes they turn around so they can supervise their students going through the water. Oh my, how cool that you can Scuba backward... NOT. Your feet are dangling and your head is up. You HAVE to be overweighted to swim like that and not rocket to the surface. Monkey see, monkey do! How can an instructor hope to teach when they aren't setting a great example? Odds are that can't set a great example. Odds are 10 to 1 that they don't even know it's a bad example. Stupid is as stupid learns. Stupid learns as stupid teaches. Worse: they probably got this from their IDC and feel like they are great divers.
No, I don't despise anyone, let alone the poor OW diver white-knuckling through their dive, totally out of control, missing most of the cool stuff, sucking air like a hoover, sculling like they're swatting flies (lots of flies at that) and wondering if or when it will get better. I pity that no one has taken the time to show them just how simple and easy Scuba can be when you start with being trim. Dive and let dive is my motto, so I let them struggle as much as they want to until they give up on diving or kind of figure it out. But I won't let my students go through that crap. No, no, no. They've come to me to learn how to have fun underwater. Their safety and fun are my responsibility and I take that charge very seriously. I teach by setting the right example all the time. They respond by diving like me with trim and buoyancy good enough to take a cavern course with.