Daphne,
If you were taking a padi course your instructor violated a major standard. Perhaps not permitting you to dive would be an absolute last resort, but there are many other solutions that would allow you to participate AND to dive with equipment required. As a rescue diver, others will look to you for advice and will copy what you do. That's why, even experienced divers still do a buddy check - as no matter how prepared you think you are, things can always happen. As a rescue diver, you need to set a good example.
As well, and totally objectively, I question what other standards the leaders of your course felt also unimportant. In my experience, the ones who break such major ones as that, are also the ones who break others. Standards protect us all - and it's in your best interests to question instructors who don't enforce them. As previously mentioned - there are lots of alternatives in between allowing you to dive without one, and not diving at all. Most instructors are outstanding in finding solutions so everyone's happy.
If you were taking a padi course your instructor violated a major standard. Perhaps not permitting you to dive would be an absolute last resort, but there are many other solutions that would allow you to participate AND to dive with equipment required. As a rescue diver, others will look to you for advice and will copy what you do. That's why, even experienced divers still do a buddy check - as no matter how prepared you think you are, things can always happen. As a rescue diver, you need to set a good example.
As well, and totally objectively, I question what other standards the leaders of your course felt also unimportant. In my experience, the ones who break such major ones as that, are also the ones who break others. Standards protect us all - and it's in your best interests to question instructors who don't enforce them. As previously mentioned - there are lots of alternatives in between allowing you to dive without one, and not diving at all. Most instructors are outstanding in finding solutions so everyone's happy.