**EDIT: The reason I wrote this post isn't because I think I'm all that, but because I made the mistake of reading the "Most Frightening Moments" thread. There were all these stories about dive buddies who really, really f**cked up. Some of these were definitely things that were understandable (panicking) and some that were from being obviously waaaaaaay over-confident about their abilities. I always assume that I'm the least experienced diver on the boat, but after reading some of these stories... whoah.**
I've taken my OW and AOW almost back to back (just a few vacation dives in between) just because I wanted extra practice. I consider myself just Open Water certified, I just wanted some extra practice.
But this means I've done 75% of my dives with an instructor. Someone whose main focus was me.
That's not the case with most vacation dives. There's a DM who has an entire group to worry about. My assigned buddy could be anyone.
I know that I am ultimately the only person responsible for me. But.. is there anything that's not a "no brainer" that should I look for when I'm on the boat to spot a potentially careless/stupid/dangerous buddy? What about while on our first dive?
And has anyone ever had an experience where you've told the DM or whatever "I'm not diving with that person again, period" and looked for a new buddy?
I've taken my OW and AOW almost back to back (just a few vacation dives in between) just because I wanted extra practice. I consider myself just Open Water certified, I just wanted some extra practice.
But this means I've done 75% of my dives with an instructor. Someone whose main focus was me.
That's not the case with most vacation dives. There's a DM who has an entire group to worry about. My assigned buddy could be anyone.
I know that I am ultimately the only person responsible for me. But.. is there anything that's not a "no brainer" that should I look for when I'm on the boat to spot a potentially careless/stupid/dangerous buddy? What about while on our first dive?
And has anyone ever had an experience where you've told the DM or whatever "I'm not diving with that person again, period" and looked for a new buddy?
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