If I'm ever in your area I'll DM you!

It is entirely possible that I don't need as much as I think I do. I know I am inexperienced and still getting the hang of things. But I also know that last week I had 14lbs in my pockets (they wanted me at 12) and an empty BCD (DM checked, haha), and I simply could not descend. Not "buoyancy issues once underwater" but "DM had to grab me by the fin and pull me under to give me more weight." I've never been told I need less weight after someone sees me dive or try to descend. It's always before.
Thanks for the advice on the wording, I will give that a try.

And if a few dozen/however many dives from now I do realize that I don't actually need that much weight, I will definitely be back here with a mea culpa.