I'm going to post my responses inline. I'm NOT a DIR diver. But I've gone diving with DIR divers and am trying to do so more regularly. I'm also taking fundies in a couple of weeks (so you know where I'm coming from).
Carribeandiver:
I am certainly not a qualified DIR diver but I am working toward that end. I took GUE DIR F two weekends ago and discovered I am approximately 17 lightyears away in skill but I am practicing and trying to 'do it right'.
I discovered GUE, got my gear and enrolled/took the course all within a 7 day period. Before that, I had already enrolled and paid for a NAUI Rescue course that started last night (Mar 5).
Take rescue for rescues sake. Forget about some of the stuff that will drive you nuts.
I asked about gas comsumption in my rescue class and was told it wasn't important. During the first pool session the instructor insisted we do air shares on our knees. I hovered to do mine (I told him I didn't spend time on my knees on the bottom diving, I wouldn't be doing air shares in an emergency that way either. He told me he was concerned about the 'current in the pool'. :11: )
Still, I managed to get alot out of the class.
Carribeandiver:
Last night in class, I saw what my GUE instructor was talking about, those people do things unsafe and they dont even know it. One of the discussions was getting back on the boat with the famous 700 psi rule. I asked, well what is your sac rate? What is your buddy's sac rate? Using the rule of thirds is a good plan because it allows enough gas for you and your buddy to safely return.
Yup. Sounds familiar. Don't fight it, IMO. Make your point that it's important, then move onto learning the skills that may one day benefit your team mate.
Carribeandiver:
I got scoffed at, ridiculed, called the master of overkill. These people not only didnt know what their sac was, they didnt even know what the term was. The course instructor talked about mistakes and how, because he is busy worrying about students, he has jumped in without his fins on, once without his weightbelt on, once without turning on his gas...blah, blah. I said, why not do a complete equipment check with your buddy before jumping in? That idea didnt go too well and was thought to be silly. Once again, I got called master of overkill.
People don't like being called wrong. If you don't think you can learn from the person, get out of the course and find someone that is more inline with your desires IMO. As I mentioned, I ran into some things in my rescue course that were very annoying. Sad but true.
Carribeandiver:
Anyway, the point of my story is, I find myself adopting all those great safety rules, trying to apply DIR techniques and philisophies and yet I am so incompetent that I can barely spell DIR let alone do it. Just the same, I know I aint going back to my "happy go lucky, good thing I am ignorant style of diving". And now, I am going diving with these people in the pool twice and in the Gulf of Mexico for 3 days (6 dives) and I can already see problems. I am going to try and be horizontal all the time and they are going to be vertical. Ascent drills are going to be interesting with that pose. Now, I can see why DIR divers prefer not to dive with non-DIR divers.
I could go on but you all know what I am talking about.
So, how do DIR divers handle diving with non-DIR divers? What do you do when non-DIR divers do things differently?
I think that you need to figure out if you can take away essential rescue skills from this course. If not, get out. If so, can you live with the fact that they dive different? You don't have to dive with those people after the course.
I dive with a large range of divers. Tonight I was out with a DIR-F grad (100 -200 dives). My buddy (she's a PADI master instructor with well over 2000 dives and manges a dive shop) and another diver who used to instruct. We had a wide range of gear from DIR compliant to snorkels. I had an easier time diving with the fundie grad the night before, just because I've been adopting the same 'style' of diving.
I expected my buddies light to be where my light was. It wasn't. But then I adjusted a bit, remembered how she dives and we really had fun. I don't think anything was unsafe about it.
There are plenty of non-DIR trained safe divers out there. If you find them, dive with them. If you think that you need to babysit who you are diving with, then don't. Unless you are _really_ comfortable doing that.
My final bit of advice: make a list of the things that you are not willing to budge on. Ensure your buddies are on board with that part of it. If you can find DIR folks to dive with then do that. Just don't give up on good, experience,
safe divers, because they are not DIR if it means you won't get out to dive.
Just my 2 psi...
Bjorn