Hello Aegir, In answer to your question The manufacturers are outfitting their regulators with better materials that are o2 compatable, O-rings such as EPDM and Viton are being used more often than not, and better HP seat materials are also being used such as Kel-f, Noryl,Vespel, and yes as previously stated Ruby.
The main things to understand is simply this: Dry suit divers that are using nitrox or other mixtures of gas are not using that gas for suit inflation, most use argon, or even air in a separate pony bottle. And yes there are questions about Counter-Difusion which is another thread all in its own, But that is only an issue when divers conduct extended dive times (Saturation)only then does the counter-difusion issue come up.
As far as the BC's and Safe Second Stages attached to them well the buck stops at the lp seat in the safe second and the valve in the bc inflation button/switch. Inside the BC is really not an issue because divers who dive nitrox and other mixes are usually using a secondary air source for inflation / bailout. this avoids large volumes of mixed gases being wasted in the inflation and deflation of a bc. If you had to purchase the mixed gas you would easily understand why people would not waste it as bouyancy gas.
After DEMA I will post a new thread on the subject elevated levels of o2 and your regulator. This will give you all a complete understanding of the process and the need for additional safety concerns to be met. thanks again and well tonight will be may last posts until after DEMA. take care and keep on posting those questions.