Texasguy
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Moved to Fort Lauderdale a year ago. Was a bit scary but it turned out alright. My goal was to have vacations every weekend. I got it. I got tired of sitting at work and daydreaming about a future vacation that can be taken only twice a year. I did mental math, 2-3 weeks a year, say for the next 20 years is nothing, like only a year... Seriously? That is it? All my life has to offer is a year of real existence? I was shortchanging my passion for South Florida and diving. And for what? I could not find an answer.. For what?
Today I am free, Sat+Sun I am 5 mins away from a great shore dive or 10mins from a boat dive. I have all my gear and more. Keys is like 1.5 hours away. Blue Heron bridge is like 45mins away. Plenty of things to explore for years to come. Even the bay side is like 1.5 hours away. After work I often go swimming or just walking on a beach, it is a 5min drive, easy parking. Ocean is available to me 24 hours a day. No need to park a car at an airport, going through security, waiting for the damn flight, sitting for 3 hours without moving, arriving, getting a rental, checking in into hotels. And the worst of them all, the rush to do maximum sightseeing and fun in the allotted time.
Do you know what I felt missing once I moved? A strange feeling that I don't have a ticket and a date when I have to go back! That felt very odd. Though, at that time I really did not have a limit to my "vacation", I moved, bitches! This deadline of a vacation was something that was like a Pavlovian response to me being in Fort Lauderdale. Can this be, I don't have to go back, I kept asking myself?!? So many times I been here as a tourist and knew exactly a day and hour I'll have to say goodbye to that place and go back to that daydream land. Sad. But I said: no more, I don't want to live away from my daydreams, I don't want to dream, I want to live them. I am not a young man anymore, if I don't live now the live I want, then when?
I remember watching Dexter or Netflix's BloodLine, I wished I was there. Well, wishing is one thing, doing something about it is another.
Anywhere I go, infrastructure is made for tourists. While I am a local, I still consider to have a tourist mindset, going to all the places, seeing things. It is the same if I drive North or South. Even after a year I have not seen 99% of what the places around me have to offer. Seriously, each weekend is like a discovery mode, going to new places. Don't even feel like I want to fly out to see other things, still happy with exploring places locally. It is still new, still fun. If I need to see new things, I have a whole state, the parks, the shore line, everlasting summer... How can it not be a paradise?
Cannot say that the move was effortless. It was a battle for everything. Now after a year I can take a breather and enjoy the accomplishments.
Today I am free, Sat+Sun I am 5 mins away from a great shore dive or 10mins from a boat dive. I have all my gear and more. Keys is like 1.5 hours away. Blue Heron bridge is like 45mins away. Plenty of things to explore for years to come. Even the bay side is like 1.5 hours away. After work I often go swimming or just walking on a beach, it is a 5min drive, easy parking. Ocean is available to me 24 hours a day. No need to park a car at an airport, going through security, waiting for the damn flight, sitting for 3 hours without moving, arriving, getting a rental, checking in into hotels. And the worst of them all, the rush to do maximum sightseeing and fun in the allotted time.
Do you know what I felt missing once I moved? A strange feeling that I don't have a ticket and a date when I have to go back! That felt very odd. Though, at that time I really did not have a limit to my "vacation", I moved, bitches! This deadline of a vacation was something that was like a Pavlovian response to me being in Fort Lauderdale. Can this be, I don't have to go back, I kept asking myself?!? So many times I been here as a tourist and knew exactly a day and hour I'll have to say goodbye to that place and go back to that daydream land. Sad. But I said: no more, I don't want to live away from my daydreams, I don't want to dream, I want to live them. I am not a young man anymore, if I don't live now the live I want, then when?
I remember watching Dexter or Netflix's BloodLine, I wished I was there. Well, wishing is one thing, doing something about it is another.
Anywhere I go, infrastructure is made for tourists. While I am a local, I still consider to have a tourist mindset, going to all the places, seeing things. It is the same if I drive North or South. Even after a year I have not seen 99% of what the places around me have to offer. Seriously, each weekend is like a discovery mode, going to new places. Don't even feel like I want to fly out to see other things, still happy with exploring places locally. It is still new, still fun. If I need to see new things, I have a whole state, the parks, the shore line, everlasting summer... How can it not be a paradise?
Cannot say that the move was effortless. It was a battle for everything. Now after a year I can take a breather and enjoy the accomplishments.
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