I was no cake eater but I also am a Navy Veteran. I agree that the dive probably should be thumbed but I have to look at all the possibilities here and for me, I would choose to not dive based on lack of information. However, if we want to look at how we manage risks via risk assessment, I think we need to see that there are missing pieces of information here and examine all possibilities.As a retired naval officer I spent plenty of time on ships in 25 knot winds and 8 foot swells/waves or more.....I don't care how big the dive boat is or how many crew members you have, that sea state is not going to make for a good or safe time on or in the ocean. As a dive professional, the way the scenario is presented, I would inform my dive buddy that I choose to not go out even if the dive center was willing to take their boat out.
-Z