I understand we all “dive differently”, these differences can be related to physical, experience, and knowledge factors.
What prompted me starting this thread was, my Wife and I had discussed our dismay with the other couple and our frustration with their diving, and yes we did take the “dive differently” into consideration.
Here are a few stories they laugh about, they don’t care to figure out what could have caused the issue:
1. On one dive (we weren’t with them), the group they were with started to submerge, the wife couldn’t submerge, and the husband assumed she was behind him. It wasn’t till about 25 minutes into the dive did he realize she wasn’t there. He was just swimming along with the group, and thought she was. He didn’t alert the DM she was missing.
2. During assent and safety stops she can’t control her buoyancy, (she’s not ascending to fast, it just a non-stop assent to the surface), someone (usually the Dive Master) has to hold her down. (and before you ask…she is actually over weighted (FYI 36lbs)), after watching this time and time again, I noticed she wasn’t exhaling to control her assent and control her buoyancy, in fact once she reaches 20 feet or so she doesn’t exhale at all, unless someone is holding her down. 9 times out of 10 during the safety stop her husband is 15 to 20 yards away. During the last set of dives the Dive Master was dealing with another diver and I had to be her “Safety Stop Anchor” while her husband just swam around. I suggested my observation (about her not exhaling) to her husband, and he told me not to say anything to her. During the next dive it happened again, and I shared my observation. Her response… “No one every told me”.
One of the great things about ScubaBoard is the forum threads, as I read them there are Positive and Constructive postings, to sometimes . . . something less than positive. This thread is no exception. In general, most people that post to the forums are generally interested in sharing knowledge, and giving back to the sport they love.
I have read or heard somewhere “Good Divers Continue to learn” and this site is a great source of information. I didn’t want to go into too much details about the other couple, but neither one of them are interested in Scubaboard, or what they could learn from it. As my Wife and I continued to get additional instruction from “AOW” to “Rescue” as well as general discussions with other divers, the other couples response to all of our additional training, was “Why were we doing it? We already have our OW cert”