One of the guys I learned to dive with 13 years ago demonstrated just that sort of thing....blown dive plan, deciding to penetrate a wreck at 90 ft with less than 800psi, took off any old direction he felt like. I just stopped diving with him.
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They aren’t good dive buddies, they fail to follow dive plans, and are generally unsafe.
I agree. I often see people complain about bad divers when in fact they are only diving differently. In fact I remember listening to two different buddy sets complain about the other. After listening to the second pair, I had to laugh out loud and tell them that they said almost the exact same thing the divers they were complaining about said about them. In reality they had two conflicting plans: two were hunters and two were photographers. Mind you, neither group complained about me, at least to my face, and I was a solo diver flitting between the two groups.If your wife is your buddy and the couple are each others buddy, how are you affected.
I agree. I often see people complain about bad divers when in fact they are only diving differently. In fact I remember listening to two different buddy sets complain about the other. After listening to the second pair, I had to laugh out loud and tell them that they said almost the exact same thing the divers they were complaining about said about them. In reality they had two conflicting plans: two were hunters and two were photographers. Mind you, neither group complained about me, at least to my face, and I was a solo diver flitting between the two groups.
That being said, I have also heard legitimate complaints. Depending on the situation, I will sometimes approach them and try to help them see how they are not being safe. There are only a few people I would not want to dive with again. I'm a pretty flexible diver and can adjust to about any diving style.
Tangent? You're offering out and out extrapolation here! I have been accused of going OOA on a dive when I had over a 2,000 PSI in my tank. Why? We were practicing OOA drills and while both of us had plenty of gas, we went through the entire stop breathing on her gas. There are two sides to every story and even when I offered to show him the pressure in my tank, I was called an "out and out liar". Even the Captain and DM were involved in this incident. They laughed it off, but I was offended that they left that boat "KNOWING" that I was OOA. Quite often the buttinskies in the world find themselves isolated or not listened to. Does this describe the OP? Probably not. Its best not to take everything posted on the internet at face value. After all, the various insights are far more entertaining then everyone singing in concert.people that purposely run OOA and ignore stops and pay no attention to planning, then don't want to talk about it later, WILL NOT be amenable to the suggestions the OP might offer them.... this is a "special" kind of diver, we do see sometimes..and this is what Rule Number One was created for
Tangent? You're offering out and out extrapolation here! I have been accused of going OOA on a dive when I had over a 2,000 PSI in my tank.
After all, the various insights are far more entertaining then everyone singing in concert.
Just call me the "Strokes Person".