RonFrank
Contributor
It sounds as if the Op have their stuff together and diving couple #2 does not. I've dove with folks that were very experienced right up to the time they had to deal with low vis, current, cold, whatever. Then they fell apart and did not know how to behave. In fact there is nothing to be sorry for, different/new conditions change things. We all learn.
I am betting the OPs team is ahead of their friends, but that is the nature of diving. I'm guessing couple #2 does not want to talk about their mistakes as it is easier not to. Maybe they are embarrassed about their mistakes, which is a good thing. Do they appear to learn from their mistakes? Do you learn from yours?
If they are OW only they will be unable to dive the deep FL wrecks. Not sure where you have been with these folks, but they could not go OOA very deep and live to tell about. I would not worry about them much unless they are constant screw ups. Talking about this with them is up to you. But avoid the holier than thou approach.
I guess it depends on if you want to maintain the friendship. I am not sure its worth ending a friendship over.
I am betting the OPs team is ahead of their friends, but that is the nature of diving. I'm guessing couple #2 does not want to talk about their mistakes as it is easier not to. Maybe they are embarrassed about their mistakes, which is a good thing. Do they appear to learn from their mistakes? Do you learn from yours?
If they are OW only they will be unable to dive the deep FL wrecks. Not sure where you have been with these folks, but they could not go OOA very deep and live to tell about. I would not worry about them much unless they are constant screw ups. Talking about this with them is up to you. But avoid the holier than thou approach.
I guess it depends on if you want to maintain the friendship. I am not sure its worth ending a friendship over.