Yes I agree! I cannot emphasize this enough. My main impression of NJ diving was coming from Chatterton related books which made it sounds like a pretty "rough around the edges" sort of experience. However, that was not my experience at all. When I was approaching the boat with my gear, Marty (crew) clearly picked up on my "deer in headlights" vibe and pulled me aside and ran through details with me and ensured any questions I had were answered. Later before, during, and after dives Marty would check in with me to see how I was doing and if there was anything he could help with.
Incidentally my first dive did not go great. I ran myself into an out of air situation, following my buddies' reel line. I had some mild anxiety around having to follow the line back (by myself--they were continuing and this is something we had agreed to while planning), head up the anchor line, safety stop, then follow the Carolina rig over to the final up line. I sucked down so much air in just a few minutes. Glad I had the pony bottle as I had to switch to it. Then I got air in my feet and ascended from my planned safety stop to the surface, but was able to get back down and finish the stop. I was a hot mess, but glad for every minute of that dive. I learned so much.
My second dive was a lot more conservative, relaxed, and enjoyable. Looking forward to getting back out there this summer!
Oh and one big takeaway is I'm going to have to learn doubles--I was literally the only one on the boat without CCR or doubles and my bottom time really suffered.
@tridacna ^