In about 200 other countries in the world people find a way to deal with their apprehension and fear of each other in other ways. I live in one of the (if not THE) most densely populated countries in the western world and believe me there is more than enough fear and more than enough burglary to go around here as well but the rate of homicide and fire-arms induced death is very low. The Dutch might be a bad example, because they don't actually have a right to defend themselves against criminals (at least not meaningfully) but everywhere you look, all over the world, people find ways to defend themselves without intent to inflict grievous bodily injury or death. It's a matter of scale.
To me, there are in fact two kinds of "gun culture". There's the kind that like their guns, they shine them, they clean them, they take pictures of themselves shooting them for their blogs, they keep track of their best scores at the range and they compare notes with their friends. Basically they have a lot of fun with them. These are the people you're talking about, I think.
Then there's the "other" gun culture. The culture of fear and paranoia. The culture of looking for a means to "feel" safe, a way to feel in control. The culture that confuses self defense with the right to murder someone who scares you ....
One of those I can perfectly follow. The other is completely.... well ... (for lack of a beter word) nutzoid, to my way of thinking. What makes it seem nutzoid to me is that only in America do people somehow manage to twist the "safety" argument to the point where they're in fact arguing that they have the right to kill. Do you (general you, I"m not sure *you* really think this) really think that Americans are the only people in the world who aren't safe on the streets? Do you really think that burglary doesn't happen anywhere else? Do you not find it strange that the other almost 6 billion people on this planet have found other ways to deal with one another than by arming themselves?
hmmm
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